7.5
526 votes
You Me Her

You Me Her

Audience 2016

An unusual, real-world romance involving relatable people, with one catch—there are three of them! You Me Her infuses the sensibilities of a smart, grounded indie rom-com with a distinctive twist: one of the two parties just happens to be a suburban married couple.

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The 10 Best Episodes of You Me Her

You Me Her - S3E10

#1 - You Be You And I'll Be Me

7.99

Season 3 - Episode 10

The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, truest, happiest lives really are together, even when it's difficult and more conventional alternatives beckon?

The episode was rated #1 Best episode of You Me Her from 116 votes.

You Me Her - S2E10

#2 - Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?

7.98

Season 2 - Episode 10

Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF consultation set, Emma must choose between a larger professional canvas and two true loves.

The episode was rated #2 Best episode of You Me Her from 155 votes.

You Me Her - S1E6

#3 - The T Word

7.89

Season 1 - Episode 6

Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to conspire against them... in their front yard. However,the real peril may be right there in the room with them.

The episode was rated #3 Best episode of You Me Her from 203 votes.

You Me Her - S1E10

#4 - Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word

7.89

Season 1 - Episode 10

Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damage. Are all three brave enough to throw caution to the wind and pull off a dramatic last second save?

The episode was rated #4 Best episode of You Me Her from 182 votes.

You Me Her - S2E9

#5 - Silver Linings and Vodka

7.88

Season 2 - Episode 9

Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve deeper, they'll have to talk their way out of a tight spot with Emma's parents.

The episode was rated #5 Best episode of You Me Her from 158 votes.

You Me Her - S2E3

#6 - Remember, Ruby, Remember

7.87

Season 2 - Episode 3

Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on his interview at Griffin College and finds himself on "the road not taken."

The episode was rated #6 Best episode of You Me Her from 184 votes.

You Me Her - S2E8

#7 - Freaky Little Love Poodles

7.79

Season 2 - Episode 8

Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and the long-term future of their relationship. Nina seeks out Andy's exes to set the record straight.

The episode was rated #7 Best episode of You Me Her from 159 votes.

You Me Her - S2E1

#8 - Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames

7.74

Season 2 - Episode 1

In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their ground in a bold, painful and permanent way.

The episode was rated #8 Best episode of You Me Her from 201 votes.

You Me Her - S2E7

#9 - Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel

7.73

Season 2 - Episode 7

With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's romantic past. And the Amaris quest for cool leads them into a bizarre social situation.

The episode was rated #9 Best episode of You Me Her from 175 votes.

You Me Her - S1E8

#10 - The Relationship More Populated

7.70

Season 1 - Episode 8

With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate the business arrangement parameters. But Izzy has a plan of her own that's WAY more fun... until it isn't.

The episode was rated #10 Best episode of You Me Her from 184 votes.

You Me Her - S2E4
#11 - Cat in the Box
7.68
Season 2 - Episode 4

It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run into Jack's "one who got away."

The episode was rated #1 Best episode of You Me Her from 182 votes.

You Me Her - S2E2
#12 - Like Riding a Vagina Bike
7.66
Season 2 - Episode 2

The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and Dave try to make amends for their previous prudishness by inviting Jack, Emma and Izzy on an unusual double date.

The episode was rated #2 Best episode of You Me Her from 197 votes.

You Me Her - S4E1
#13 - Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole
7.63
Season 4 - Episode 1

Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, "test-renting the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma's baby-doc appointment put enough pressure on Izzy to finally cave and put down roots in the 'burbs?

The episode was rated #3 Best episode of You Me Her from 108 votes.

You Me Her - S4E9
#14 - I'm Popeye and You're My Beautiful Spinach
7.62
Season 4 - Episode 9

Izzy tries to friend zone Nathan once and for all. Jack and his mom finally have their showdown.

The episode was rated #4 Best episode of You Me Her from 77 votes.

You Me Her - S4E5
#15 - Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!
7.62
Season 4 - Episode 5

EJI attend Poly Training Camp with Portland's resident poly expert, Coach Remi. They expected the unexpected... but not that they'd be "outed" for doing poly all wrong.

The episode was rated #5 Best episode of You Me Her from 86 votes.

You Me Her - S1E5
#16 - Niece Jackie
7.62
Season 1 - Episode 5

Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collective nerve and take a huge leap, Andy begins to put the pieces together about what Izzy's really been up to.

The episode was rated #6 Best episode of You Me Her from 216 votes.

You Me Her - S2E6
#17 - What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?
7.60
Season 2 - Episode 6

Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby. All the while, the clock's ticking on the daunting arrival of Emma's hyper-conservative parents.

The episode was rated #7 Best episode of You Me Her from 172 votes.

You Me Her - S3E7
#18 - Hold Onto Your Ovaries
7.60
Season 3 - Episode 7

At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers to be her replacement "thesis date". Good news for Carmen's magazine means bad news for Dave.

The episode was rated #8 Best episode of You Me Her from 114 votes.

You Me Her - S3E5
#19 - Welcome to the Tiger Cage
7.59
Season 3 - Episode 5

Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a surprising new relationship, Nina lashes out at Shaun. Emma makes the biggest decision of her life.

The episode was rated #9 Best episode of You Me Her from 102 votes.

You Me Her - S3E8
#20 - The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice
7.58
Season 3 - Episode 8

Nina's emerging feelings for Shaun are complicated when Andy pops back up with one hell of a story. Ben plants seeds of doubt about how Izzy could fit into the Trakarskys' new life.

The episode was rated #10 Best episode of You Me Her from 117 votes.

Last updated: nov 22, 2020

Comments

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I watched the first episode and binge watched the entire season in 1 day. I was insta hooked. Season 2 and 3 have been confirmed already from what I've read so I am pretty happy about that.

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It clings on you until you bingewatch every episode. Too cute.

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This show was such a suprised! But a really good one! One of my favourites

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Happily being one of the very few (I actually can`t think of another TV Series exploring the same theme) polyamorous romances out there, "You Me Her" manages to captivate your attention and your heart with its loving characters and cute situations. This TV Series is without a doubt a favorite of the "Romance" genre to me, together with "Love" from Judd Apatow. The Plot Don't get me wrong, I know nothing of polyamorous relationships (nor monogamous relationships either), but for me, this TV Series manages to explore the doubts and insecurities that people in a polyamorous relationship goes through. They explore the insecurities of being just a third wheel ([spoiler] like Jack in the second Season and Izzy in the third [/spoiler] ), the insecurities and fears to face society (not that they explicitly show any strong prejudice) and some other details like friends judging you because of your relationship decisions etc. It is wildly interesting plot, while it does rely on cliches its cuteness and its pleasant ambiance makes up for it. The Characters, or why the cuteness extreme I can't say why, but every single character in this TV Series are loving and caring, they may have their quirkiness and their weaknesses but they overall care for each other. It is a nice change from the base overgrowing post-modern cynical TV Series appearing all over the place like everything on Adult Swim (which I do like, but sometimes its tiresome to always question if things have meaning or not). Even if I stated that I can say that during the first season I actually didn't like the protagonists Jack and Emma's judgmental friends, but they grow up and stuff doing it. The Soundtrack There is very few TV Series that manages to catch my attention with its soundtrack, this is, unfortunately, not one. Final Thoughts While I regard this as one of my favorite "light romcom" TV Series, I still see some minor flaws, but its positive message and its interesting subject, while cliched, make up for it. It is a nice romance that everyone should watch.

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my ex girlfriend made me feel absolutely disgusting when i confessed that i was polyamorous. she made me feel the same when i said i thought this show looked awesome. i never got to watch it back then but four months have passed since we split and i am so so happy to finally be who i want to be and this show really summed that up for me. you me her made me feel so good inside and about myself and whether or not there will be a fourth season or not, i'm so so happy because of what it's done for me.

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The show is ruined by how unrealistically stupid the characters behave and how they create problems out of thin air. I think the actress who plays Izzy is doing a good job, but the plot is terrible more often than not. The biggest mystery is why Izzy is drawn to Jack and Emma — they are not given a single good quality.

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Loved this show. Would have liked to have seen some action between the EJI before the final scenes. Still I thought the series tied up well with the last scene

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series ended with season 5....please correct the returning series status

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The characters are believable and likeable, if occasionally cliched. The same goes for the storylines. I really appreciate the fresh look at the poly-relationships.

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Why the hell do I keep watching shows like this? It is so binge-able that I am never capable of waiting a minute once each season is released. And so you know, Dave & Carmen are my favorite duo. Period.

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